So far we've been talking a lot about how to play it safer when you fuck, but there are a lot of other hot ways to share the love (or to just get off!) that don't involve a visit to POUND TOWN. For example, giving your partner a full body rubdown with a happy ending, is a hot and safer way to get it on, without sticking it in! Check out the hot and safer tips below! IMG_9793_clipped_rev_1

It's pretty rare for HIV to be transmitted from giving or getting a blow job, but that doesn't mean you have nothing to consider when you're going down town on someone you don't know to be STD free.

Unfortunately you can pretty much get every sexually transmitted disease in your mouth or throat (gonorrhea, chlamydia, syphilis, herpes and HPV). That's why its important to get your mouth and throat checked when you go in for your regular STD testing.

The best way to avoid getting an STD from oral sex is to use a flavored condom--that protects your dick and his mouth from infections (or the other way around). There are a lot of flavors out there, have a little fun finding your favorite flavor.

If you're not using a condom for oral sex, you want to make sure you don't brush your teeth at least for a few hours before you give a blow job--brushing creates small tears in the mouth which can make it easier for you to get an infection. Use gum or a breath mint to freshen your breath instead.

If you're between 18-26 you should get the HPV vaccine, which can give you some protection from the HIV virus, which in rare cases can cause cancer of the mouth.


A slow deep massage is a hot and safer way to connect with your partner and release all kinds of tension. Just make sure that if you plan to fuck afterwards, you use a water based massage lube that has no oil in it, so that it won't cause the condom to break if you're using one to fuck.


Chokin' the chicken, spankin' the monkey, jerkin' off, beatin' off, wanking...whatever you want to call it, a good old fashioned hand job is a hot and safer way to get off.

Sex with your self is the safest sex of all, and you don't even have to buy yourself dinner first.

If you're jerking off with a friend (or friends), do remember that it is possible to spread some STDs like gonorrhea via infected body fluids, so don't go jerking off a buddy and then rubbing his fluids on your dick head/pee hole.

To be safest, wash your hands before you switch from his dick back to your own.


Whether you're by yourself or with a partner, sex toys like dildos and butt plugs can be a fun way to spice up your sex life--but there are a few things you need to keep in mind.

Sexually transmitted diseases can be spread by sharing sex toys, so if you're going to be sharing toys, you need to cover them with a different condom for each person.

You should always wash the toy between uses according to the manufacturers instructions.

Of course, you're always going to want to use plenty of lube when using a toy, so things go in nice and easy.

And, have you ever heard that expression "his eyes were bigger than his stomach!" to refer to someone who is hungry for more than than can truly eat? Well the same goes for sex toys! So don't go shoving some giant dildo up your asshole just because you saw some porn star do it. You can cause serious trauma to your anus and rectum and even cause a life threatening tear. Start slow and small and you won't end up in the ER or worse.

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